Hello Everybody,

With spring arrived in the Northern hemisphere we can at last relax in the sun with a glass of wine and enjoy the weather. After all, we do know exercise is good for us, we know the pounds we gained at Christmas are still there. But, hey, it’s spring - where’s the hammock.
Weight loss motivation can be difficult. But if we want to look good on the beach, or even on the hammock, this summer we had better start an exercise program now. By exercise I mean anything from walking to swimming to lifting weights. Whatever helps burn off the calories which need burning off for you to lose weight. But before we can lose weight we must get motivated to start that exercise program. So what are the five most popular excuses not to lose weight?
It’s a Losing Battle: You’ve tried before and the weight just comes back on again. ‘I’m too heavy for exercise. I just look silly’ you say. Well maybe if you carry on as you are you will look even more silly until one day you end up looking totally ridiculous. Surely that is enough weight loss motivation to start you exercising and eating a more healthy diet. You don’t need a crash diet, just start slowly with a little exercise and cutting out junk food. The secret is to keep it up. Carry on and you will lose weight and keep slim. Go back to your old ways and you will put on weight again.
I Don’t Have Time: Yes you do. When did you last watch television? Probably yesterday or today. The average person watches 4.5 hours television every day. Can you manage to watch just 4 hours a day? If so you have just swapped watching C list celebrities doing idiotic things for being slim, healthy and living longer.
I Get Bored: You are doing it wrong. Listen to music. Go with a friend. Talk to someone on your mobile if you really must - although maybe not if you are swimming. Or if you are walking try just looking around. There is plenty to see on a walk whether it is in the country or in a town. You could try varying the exercise you do. One day swimming, one day walking, one day cycling. You must have a favourite, so you can look forward to that day coming around. Exercise need not be boring.
I Can Never Get Started: That is because you do not want to start. You fear failure.There is a little voice in your head saying it just won’t work. Ask it how it knows. Has it any evidence? If you failed before and you repeat exactly what you did last time of course you will fail again. But you are not doing that. This time you are doing it differently. This is not a crash diet, it is a permanent lifestyle change to regular exercise and healthy food. Kick the little voice into touch.
My Friends Are All Fat and Jolly: Are fat people really jolly? There is nothing jolly about finding it hard to climb stairs or run for a bus. Heart disease or Type 2 diabetes is not very amusing. Do fat people have much to be jolly about? I agree that peer pressure can be hard to resist. Living with someone addicted to junk food and fizzy drinks when you are trying to eat fresh vegetables and lean meat is not easy. Just try your best. Perhaps your example will encourage others to follow your lead, when they see how much better you look and feel.
That is all there is to it. Getting motivated can be difficult in many types of activity. But identifying what is stopping you trying to lose weight is half the battle. There are many motivational books and DVDs available in bookshops and on the internet. Try them by all means. Only don’t put off your weight loss program while you read too many motivational books. To lose weight for the summer you really must start now. Good luck!
See you soon,
Peter Stockwell
28 April 2010
