Hello Everybody,

A lot of people ask, ‘How can I lose weight?’ They have tried everything and nothing works. Or they have lost a little weight and put it back on again. They are in despair. They often give up, having decided that they have the wrong genes, or big bones or some other reason beyond their control. Of course there are people with a medical condition which makes them fat. But not many. If you are overweight and can’t seem to do anything about it see your doctor. He will probably say you are perfectly healthy - but will be delighted that you want to lose weight. So what are you doing wrong? Here is the likely reason you are still asking, ‘How can I lose weight?’
You have not decided what you want. It’s as simple as that. You must have a goal. If you just think it is a good idea to lose a few pounds in the next week or so it is easy to give up. If you decide to drop a dress size or get into last year’s summer shorts by July that is a goal. If you want to lose 40 pounds in under a year that is another goal - but you will need to go about it in a different way. Short term weight loss is quite possible with crash diets or pills, but be careful and do not keep it up for very long. To lose 40 pounds and stay that way you will need a lifestyle change. So you must decide what you want.
If you have decided to lose a lot of weight good for you. You’ll look better, feel better, enjoy life more, improve your sex life - or get a sex life - and live longer. It could be the best decision you ever took. This is how you do it.
Eat Fresh Fruit and Vegetables. Fresh fruit and vegetables are essential to a balanced diet. Try to eat them every day.
Eat Lean Meat and Fish. Make sure you eat lean meat like chicken and grass fed beef. The best fish is oily fish like mackerel - not king mackerel as this can contain mercury and not tuna as this is being over fished to extinction.
Drink More Water. Although you should never give up breakfast you should not be eating as much as you have been doing. To avoid feeling hungry drink a big glass of water before your meal. This will fill you up and make you want less food. It is suggested that you drink eight glasses a day - which seems to me to be rather a lot. So just drink as much as you feel comfortable with but make sure you drink a glass before you eat.
Exercise. The big shock horror for some. It is all about self image. Overweight people don’t like waddling round the block and being lapped by keen joggers. Twice. What you forget is nobody cares. Nobody is interested in whether or not you are being lapped. Some people you meet will be more unfit than you are. So don’t worry. Tell yourself that in six months you will be keeping up with the joggers, and that’s another goal to aim for. Brisk walking is good easy exercise, but if you just can’t face it swimming or cycling will do just as well. You could even go to a gym, but that could really hurt your self image as you will see a lot of mega fit people. Too many for comfort perhaps. Whatever you do exercise for 30 minutes every day for six days a week.
That’s all there is to it. There are plenty of recipes online for meals incorporating your healthy ingredients. I like the Mediterranean diet because it tastes good, you can pretend you are on holiday and even drink a glass of wine as well. But there are others you may prefer - just don’t get bogged down in expensive fad diets. The important thing is to keep to a healthy lifestyle and never again will you need to ask ‘How can I lose weight?’
See you soon,
Peter Stockwell
Cambridge UK
25 April 2011
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